I’ve had so many things to say – and so little time to say them.
First and foremost… It’s my France-iversary!
I’ve officially been living in France for a full year, minus those couple of months at the start of this year. But my stuff has been here for a full year and that’s what counts. Home is where
the heart your stuff is.
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1 year ago I moved to Paris. I had no idea that 365 days later I would have gotten engaged, quit my job, found a new one, and gotten married twice. So excited to see what happens next. Bring it on, France! 📆 . . . #thistimelastyear #expat #paris #france #movingabroad #livinginfrance #parismaville #parisjetaime #igparis #igersparis #igtravel #risk #leapoffaith #lewiscarroll #quote #travel #risk #jump #justdoit #expatproblems #ayearago #aupair #igparis
It’s amazing to me that it has been a year already. This time last year, I was just moving into a freezing apartment with no heat, nervous to try the metro alone, and starting a long, strange few months working from home. I can’t believe how much has changed since then. Travel, engagement, married (twice), working, feeling settled… I couldn’t have asked for more.
As for recent events…
The last few months have been quite a blur. I managed to finally post something in early September after the summer, but I know I’ve been neglecting you all. It’s not like I haven’t been doing anything to write home about, I definitely have! But that’s exactly the problem.
Since the start of June I have:
- Started a new job, that keeps me out of the house and busy from 9am-7pm at least
- Flown to Boston and back for a dress fitting
- Visited dozens of apartments to buy or rent
- Got my Titre de Sejour! It only took 3 attempts to get into the Prefecture de Police to pick it up
- Flown to Boston and back for our US wedding
- Actually put pen to paper to buy an apartment
- Spent half a day at the OFII (immigration office)
- and tried to have some semblance of a life outside of paperwork and real estate
So you can see why it’s been tricky to squeeze in time to write about the various goings-on around Paris. I had hoped to write a post all about La Rentrée here in France, because it’s a really interesting phenomenon. After all the Parisians abandon the city in the month of August, everyone comes flooding back for September 1st in what has been aptly described as a sort of second New Year’s. Everything’s fresh, a new start after a healthy break from school, work, city life, and hustle and bustle. There’s just no equivalent in the US. We have “back to school” season, of course, but the world doesn’t stop turning during the summer quite the way it does here, so it’s not as much of a shock when it all starts up again.
But now, we’re officially into fall, and life and business is completely in full swing. I’ve even started seeing Christmas decorations in a few stores, but don’t get me started on that. We think it starts early in the US, but in my experience, countries that don’t really celebrate Halloween in the big way we do or have a fall holiday like Thanksgiving to take the edge off tend to dive head-first into Christmas wayyy too early. For us, we can look forward to Thanksgiving – the food, the fall colors and atmosphere – to dip our toes into the ‘holiday spirit’ before the full dive. Here, there’s no barrier. It’s holiday anarchy.
But, I digress.
The point is, I’ve neglected you all and had a lot of things going on and haven’t been sharing it all with you. Here’s my apology, in the form of a collage of delicious things:
If that doesn’t make up for it, here’s (as we say on the internet) a cat tax:
Next up: I’ll tell you all about my thrilling visits to the OFII – Office of Immigration and Integration – visits to the Prefecture de Police, and on a more exciting note, our upcoming trip to Barcelona! (Surprise, family! I don’t think I told you about this yet…)